Off-Campus Roommates

When sharing space with roommates, be sure to establish clear expectations one another. One way to do this is to create a written roommate agreement. This agreement can clarify expectations and help prevent potential conflicts before they arise.

Here are key topics to discuss:

• Rent and utilities: Decide how you will divide rent, utilities and other shared expenses. Ensure everyone agrees on a fair and consistent method of payment.
• Cleaning responsibilities: Establish a cleaning schedule or division of tasks for shared spaces like the kitchen, bathroom and living room. Be clear about who handles what (and when) to help maintain a tidy environment and avoid tension.
• Guests and quiet hours: Discuss how often you plan to host guests and where they can stay in your space. Also determine designated quiet times and personal spaces. Agreeing on these boundaries upfront helps manage expectations and keeps everyone comfortable.
• Handling disagreements: Establish a plan for addressing issues calmly and respectfully. Whether it’s a group meeting, an open dialogue or involving a neutral third party, having a strategy in place helps resolve problems before they escalate.

• Communicate early and often: Don’t wait for minor annoyances to grow into bigger problems. Regular, open communication about issues as they arise can prevent misunderstandings from turning into conflicts.
• Stay flexible: Living with others requires compromise. Be willing to adjust expectations and find middle ground to maintain a positive living environment.
• Stay calm and objective: If a disagreement occurs, address it calmly. Focus on the issue at hand rather than making it personal. Approaching conflicts with an open mind can help resolve issues more smoothly.
• Use the roommate agreement as a guide: If conflicts do arise, refer back to your agreement to remind everyone of set expectations. It serves as a helpful tool to reset and clarify boundaries.